one more before month's end

Submitted by catfeeder
on August 31, 2006 - 2:41pm

Ok, so my little experiment didn't really work out. Mostly, I just didn't care to write at the end of the day, and really, my days aren't that interesting. Maybe they are, but I didn't want to clog this up with completely mundane crap.

Kari and I have been on-again, off-again. Two and a half weeks ago, we agreed to split up. The following Tuesday, she came over and we talked some more, and since then, it's been as if Sunday never happened. My main complaint about Kari is that she's got a real battered-woman's attitude about her job. She works her butt off for the place she's working, and she gets continually crapped on. Her subordinates make more money than she does, and they probably work fewer hours. I get the fact that she's a workaholic, but what I don't understand is why she won't put time into finding an employer that will at least respect her? It drives me crazy because sometimes I feel like I should be charging her employer for psychotherapy or something. Anyway, it's just annoying because I feel like she defines herself by her job; she puts it ahead of anything else in her life, even herself, and in the process, makes some very bad judgement calls of what to prioritize her time with. It's difficult, and while I love Kari, I also know that this is a personality trait that is not likely to go away, and I basically have to figure out if I can deal with that.

Ok, I'm officially ready for summer to be over here....It was hellish for a couple weeks in July, then rain came and cooled it down to 100 or so; I know most of you won't believe me but there is a big difference between 100 and 110. It's like you cross some sort of exponential threshold on the way to 110. The weather forecasters here don't really know what to expect during monsoon season, so they generally put out forecasts that reflect what happened the week before. Anyway, I'm getting tired of this shit quick.

I'm hoping to have the EP of The Andys replicated and out by the end of September. Which would be good, because right now it looks as if October could be a good month for shows for us. A few days ago I was approached (online) by a woman in the Orange County area; she saw us during the Memorial Day weekend show at Hollywood Alley and apparently, she liked us enough that she wants to try and get us shows in the Southern California area. I says "hell yeah!"

Kari and I were riding around a little bit yesterday, and she wasn't feeling exceptionally well, so instead of one of the more normal bikes we take, we ended up cruising around some of the neighborhoods in Scottsdale and looking at homes. You can get a feel for some of the home designs, and I could tell when we were crossing the boundaries from one development to another. Most of the neighborhoods were built in the early 60's, so there isn't really walls or other boundaries to denote them. I'm beginning to realize that I like some of the "modern" homes of this period. I never thought I'd really care, but checking it out got me sort of interested. I found a couple of cool websites that cover the neighborhoods and homes. I'm finding myself interested in the homes built by Ralph Haver.

Couldn't Agree More...

NeilK
on
September 2, 2006 - 6:46am

both on the 100 versus 110 thing, and um...well, the entire second paragraph. Nuff said about that.

Good to see another blog entry. Well, my own little experiment with KernelTrap's blog here "failed" as well (what can I say - reading books seems to be more enjoyable than installing various Linux distributions.) I think it's impossible to *efficiently* do both well (live and blog.)

That said, both Ubuntu and FC5 went onto the cheap Gateway just fine, though the VIA Unichrome IGP graphics are so new that both are using the generic VESA drivers instead of the proper, newer X.org ones (or the "proprietary" VIA ones.)

Side note: I installed Ubuntu on my old work machine (got a 1.5ghz P4 to replace the ole 733mhz jobbie.) Ubuntu was surprisingly fast, easy-to-install, update, and looks fairly similar to my good ole home GNOME-based FC4 desktop. I think I see the appeal of it, finally.

Sorry I've been "inaccessible" lately. The morning sickness is getting annoying, but the thought of cooler temperatures here in the Valley pulls me through. How great will it be when we can eat outside somewhere on Scottsdale Road, in comfort, watching people and eating giant hamburgers or something, in the sun, healthy and happy. T-minus two months.

-neil

saturday

catfeeder
on
September 5, 2006 - 12:24pm

It was nice to hang out on Saturday!

Ditto

NeilK
on
September 5, 2006 - 4:14pm

Right back at you man. Who'd have thought sitting around all day, eating, and watching old South Park episodes could be so...comfortable?

On a side note, Andy, Nappy and I watched ALL 13 episodes of Clone High in ONE sitting yesterday. I think, as usual, I enjoyed it more than they did, but it was a surprisingly hedonistic way of spending the afternoon. And dammit, why do all the good shows get cancelled (*cough* Firefly *cough*)?

-n

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